Saturday, July 30, 2016
The Celebrant Troubadour: Reaching for the Moon (Again)
The Celebrant Troubadour: Reaching for the Moon (Again): by Tulis McCall, Life-Cycle Celebrant After July 20, 1969, when human beings first set foot on the moon, we never look...
Monday, July 11, 2016
Reaching for the Moon (Again)
After July 20, 1969, when human
beings first set foot on the moon, we never looked up at her again in quite the
same way. Our journey to the moon also changed the way we looked at Earth. This
first human sighting of Earth—the “fragile blue marble” surrounded by black
space—changed our understanding of the planet from something invincible to
something fragile that needs our attention, commitment, and care. What elements
of your life might benefit from the same kind of change in perspective?
• Lie on the ground, on the floor,
or on a bed or couch. Slowly look up and from side to side. Take special note
of two or three objects or locations you can see.
• Sit up and look around slowly.
Note what you can see that was previously out of sight. Gaze at the objects or
areas you previously noted. How are they different?
• Stand up and slowly look around.
Once again, examine those objects or locations you chose. What is different
now? What were you sitting on that you could not see before?
• Rise up on your toes three times.
As you lift yourself, notice the change in your perspective. It is small but
mighty.
• Finally, write down three areas
of your life where you feel stuck.
Closet need clearing out? Client
pool shrinking? Relationship not going so well? Write it down.
• Then flip your statements.
Instead of saying “My closet needs cleaning out,” try “I need cleaning out.”
Instead of, “I need more clients,” try “More clients need me.” Instead of “My
partner is getting on my nerves,” try “I might be getting on my partner’s
nerves.” Write down these new perspectives. Say them out loud. How do they feel
and how do you feel saying them?
IN CLOSING
With every moonrise, there is an
earthrise. When you bring a new perspective to a problem, there is a shift.
With that shift comes new possibilities. We just need to change our perspective
in order to see them, just as we did when we stepped upon the moon.
TULIS MCCALLis a Life-Cycle Celebrant® certified in Weddings. She lives and works throughout the New York Metro Area. You can reach Tulis through her websites, www.weddingsbytulis.com or at www.newyorkweddingofficiant.org.
This book was created by the Celebrant Foundation & Institute. Contact us at: celebrantinstitute.org or give us a call at: (973) 746-1792.
Sunday, July 3, 2016
“Who
Uses the Services of A Celebrant?”
By Elaine
Voci, Ph.D.
When you think of the word “celebrant” what comes to
mind? Perhaps you see someone
dressed ceremonially performing an outdoor wedding as I did last autumn for a
young Hispanic couple who said their vows in a lovely state park with the
golden leaves of fall on the ground under crisp blue skies. Or maybe you see a formal looking
officiant presiding over the funeral of someone whose family is mourning their
loss and participating in a personalized service that includes a memory table,
several heartfelt eulogies and poetic tributes that provide a fitting “soul
sketch” of the deceased in an authentic, touching memorial service.
But did your vision also include a simply dressed
officiant helping a couple celebrate the adoption of their first child in front
of a group of close friends? And
did you see a casually dressed celebrant performing a house blessing for a
midlife couple who have downsized into a smaller living space? Did you envision an officiant presiding
over the five year anniversary celebration of a successful company whose services
have earned local recognition for excellence?
Each of these circumstances, so different from each
other, put to good use the celebrant’s skills of storytelling, their training in the art of ritual, rites of passage and ceremony. Each event required attention to the goals and motivational desires of their clients to make the experience highly personalized, tailored, and meaningful. Celebrants collaborate with their clients to create and perform personalized ceremonies that reflect the client’s beliefs, philosophy of life, and personality, not the celebrant’s. Taken as a whole, these unique events demonstrate the wonderful diversity of people who choose to employ the services of a celebrant to perform ceremonies that help individuals, couples, and families mark life-changing events, milestones, and/or significant life decisions.
other, put to good use the celebrant’s skills of storytelling, their training in the art of ritual, rites of passage and ceremony. Each event required attention to the goals and motivational desires of their clients to make the experience highly personalized, tailored, and meaningful. Celebrants collaborate with their clients to create and perform personalized ceremonies that reflect the client’s beliefs, philosophy of life, and personality, not the celebrant’s. Taken as a whole, these unique events demonstrate the wonderful diversity of people who choose to employ the services of a celebrant to perform ceremonies that help individuals, couples, and families mark life-changing events, milestones, and/or significant life decisions.
Given the vastly growing segment of our society who describe themselves as “not religious, but spiritual” it’s no wonder that the number of celebrant-led weddings, baby blessings, funerals and healing ceremonies are growing. In 2014, for example, 74% of Australian marriages and more than 80% of funerals/end of life celebrations were also co-created and performed by civil celebrants. In the US, Canada and many other English-speaking countries around the world celebrants are increasingly performing weddings, funerals, coming of age and other rituals. Recently laws have been passed in the US where Civil Celebrants are included in the marriage laws to reflect the need of people who desire their lives be celebrated and their stories be told – their way.
Celebrants themselves are a diverse group and come from many
different backgrounds; they are represented among various age groups, and have
all kinds of different personalities.
Celebrants may perform alternative and nontraditional ceremonies in
places, and under circumstances, where mainstream religious clergy will not. Celebrants often perform ceremonies in parks, on beaches, on
mountains, on boats, on hiking trails, in hotels, in banquet halls, in private
homes, and many other places. As
one wise and witty celebrant I know puts it, “I will go anywhere that couples
want me to with just two exceptions: I don’t go nude, and I don’t do ceremonies
that involve hot air balloons or parachutes!”
The
celebrant profession is an occupation that began in Australia and New Zealand
over 50 years ago and has now established itself in the US, Canada, Mexico and
Europe. The Celebrant Foundation & Institute is proud to be a member of the
International Federation of Celebrants. If you are looking for a new career, come
join us and be among the very first Certified Life-Cycle Celebrants in your
community to offer personal, meaningful and memorable ceremonies for all life's
womb-to-tomb occasions.
Celebrant Blog: July, 2016
Elaine Voci is a life coach, specializing in end of life services, in private practice in Carmel, IN and a graduate of the Celebrant Foundation & Institute class of 2014. The published author of five books, Elaine is the Editor of the Celebrant Blog for the Celebrant Foundation & Institute.
Elaine Voci is a life coach, specializing in end of life services, in private practice in Carmel, IN and a graduate of the Celebrant Foundation & Institute class of 2014. The published author of five books, Elaine is the Editor of the Celebrant Blog for the Celebrant Foundation & Institute.
Photo courtesy of: Celebrant Foundation & Institute, Celebrants Marcia Almeida and Cindie Wilding
Cindie Wilding
As a Celebrant I have the best job! It is my great
pleasure to get to know couples: who they are, what they love, how they met,
what makes them ...-Cindie Wilding
Email: celebrant.cindie@gmail.com
Please direct all request, comment or concerns about our CF&I Blog to our Social Media Manager ~ Marcia Almeida, Master Life-Cycle Celebrant. at celebrantsocialmedia@gmail.com
Or to the Celebrant Foundation & Institute’s director, Charlotte Eulette at:charlotteeulette@celebrantinstitute.org call us at (973)746-1792.
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